Diaspora diaries: My children and their education-supporting exam time.

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Below are the tips we shared on supporting your children.

God has called us into a *living* relationship with Him and those around us especially our families, children in particular.

By investing time, we are able to be effective in supporting their journey into their growth.

– Loving them despite and beyond the grades is key.

– Love propels us to invest time in prayer for them.

– Supporting them with their studies throughout the year is more important than exam day.

– Speak to their teachers, be involved at school.

– For most of us, the education system is a whole new experience. Seek to learn from others, ask questions, be open and willing to learn.

– Let’s be sensitive and empathetic towards other parents who may seem to be struggling at school.

Here are seven effective strategies:

1. Create a Study-Friendly Environment

Why: A quiet, organized space helps concentration and reduces distractions.

How:

• Dedicate a specific area for studying, free from noise and clutter.

• Provide good lighting, comfortable seating, and necessary stationery.

• Encourage short, focused study sessions using the Pomodoro technique (25 minutes of work, 5 minutes of break).

2. Establish a Study Routine

Why: A consistent routine reduces anxiety and builds productive habits.

How:

• Work together to create a realistic revision timetable, balancing core subjects and weaker areas.

• Include regular breaks and time for relaxation to prevent burnout.

• Monitor progress and adjust the plan if needed.

3. Manage Phone and Social Media Usage

Why: Phones and social media can be major distractions during study time.

How:

• Agree on “phone-free” study times and use apps like Forest or Focus Booster to block distractions.

• Designate times for social media use, ideally during breaks or after study sessions.

• Lead by example by minimizing your own screen time during family hours.

4. Encourage a Balanced Lifestyle

Why: Physical activity, sleep, and a healthy diet improve focus and reduce stress.

How:

• Promote regular exercise, such as walks, yoga, or sports.

• Ensure they get 8-9 hours of sleep each night by setting consistent bedtimes.

• Provide nutritious meals and encourage hydration, avoiding excess caffeine or sugary snacks.

5. Offer Emotional Support

Why: GCSEs can be stressful, and children need to feel supported and understood.

How:

• Listen to their concerns without judgment and offer reassurance.

• Avoid comparing them to peers or siblings.

• Celebrate small achievements to boost their confidence and motivation.

6. Encourage Active Revision Techniques

Why: Passive studying is less effective than active learning.

How:

• Suggest methods like mind maps, flashcards, practice exams, and teaching concepts to others.

• Use online resources, such as GCSEPod, BBC Bitesize, or Seneca Learning, to diversify study approaches.

• Discuss difficult topics together to help them articulate their understanding.

7. Model a Growth Mindset

Why: A positive attitude can reduce anxiety and encourage perseverance.

How:

• Emphasize effort over results: “It’s about doing your best, not being perfect.”

• Share examples from your own life where persistence led to improvement.

• Remind them that setbacks are learning opportunities, not failures.

Bonus Tip: Stay Involved

Regularly check in on their progress and well-being without micromanaging. Balance support with independence to build their confidence in managing their responsibilities.

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